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Kinnected

Kinnected

著者: Tolu Mejolagbe LPC LMHCA & Gitika Talwar PhD
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概要

The mental health podcast that centers collective care and relationships that outlast empire. Hosted by two BIPOC mental health professionals located in the so-called United States, Tolu Mejolagbe LPC, LMHCA and Gitika Talwar, PhD.

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  • Limits That Keep Love Alive: setting boundaries without cutting people off
    2026/03/31

    Send us your feedback, we'd love to hear from you!

    “Boundaries” can sound like a clean solution, but real relationships are messier than a script. We start from that tension and ask a more honest question: how do we set limits in relationships without turning connection into control, and without abandoning ourselves to keep the peace?

    We break down what boundaries actually are and why the term can feel weaponized. A boundary is about what I will do in response to what happens, not a way to manage someone else. That single shift helps untangle common confusion between boundaries, rules, expectations, and standards, and it opens the door to healthier communication. We also bring in an essential mental health distinction that changes everything: conflict is not the same as abuse. When we collapse those two, we either tolerate harm or refuse the relational work that conflict requires.

    From there we move into interdependence, culture, and the grief that can come with growth. Cultural scripts often shape what respect looks like, and when generations acculturate differently, the mismatch can trigger people pleasing, shame, or fear of disappointing family. We talk about how to make room for your nervous system, your needs, and your values, while still holding love as something bigger than compliance. We close by inviting you to name your own generative values so you have a north star when relationships get hard.

    If this resonates, subscribe, share with someone you’re in relationship with, and leave a review so more people can find these conversations.


    PS: Here are the folks we referenced in the podcast:


    Erotics of Liberation: Content created by this amazing practitioner Care (they/them).who describes themself as a "light-skinned Black trans non binary abolitionist somatic practitioner, artist & doula who works on re-membering embodied experiences of awe, connection, miracles & care. Their work blooms at the intersection of Black interiority, somatic memory and queer intimacies."

    Newsletter: https://substack.com/@eroticsofliberation?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android&r=29eimx

    Website : https://www.eroticsofliberation.com/


    Dr Raquel Martin : https://www.raquelmartinphd.com/


    Toni Jones, Energy Budget , "people pleasing is not love, it's fear"

    https://youtu.be/2OB-6V0_QZ8?si=cAoVDt8zte4u-ke6


    Thanks for listening,

    Tolu & Gitika

    You can reach us at kinnected.squarespace.com


    Tolu is the Founder of Re-member Counseling & Gitika is the Founder of Pranh Healing & Wellness

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    28 分
  • What If Dependence Is Not Weakness But Reality
    2026/03/24

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    We explore interdependence as a grounded practice of collective care, not a feel-good idea, and we name how it reshapes the way we do relationships. We unpack the responsibilities that come with being connected, including conflict, repair, and showing up for each other through the hard parts of being human.

    • interdependence as “hanging between” and living among each other
    • dependence as a spectrum, including healthy dependence and codependency
    • interconnection beyond human relationships, including our reliance on the earth
    • what interdependence asks of us, including growth, honesty and impact awareness
    • rupture and repair as a relationship skill, including receiving support and co-regulation
    • messy edges of truth-telling, tone and aftercare, plus the value of relational rigor
    • identity, privilege and oppression shaping how impact is felt in relationships
    • liberation and resilience through mutual aid, community networks and responsibility
    • nature as teacher, including mycelium networks and the “wood wide web”

    And please remember to share and subscribe to our podcast so that we land in your inbox every time we drop a new episode. Sign up for those notifications. Leave us comments and talk in the chat.


    Thanks for listening,

    Tolu & Gitika

    You can reach us at kinnected.squarespace.com


    Tolu is the Founder of Re-member Counseling & Gitika is the Founder of Pranh Healing & Wellness

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    29 分
  • What If Rest Is A Relationship You Practice
    2026/03/17

    We explore how relationship, rest, and even play become the real infrastructure for sustainable care work.

    • the energetic difference between employee life and entrepreneurship
    • survival mode, fluctuating income, and learning new systems
    • building a practice through relationship, referrals, and consultation
    • shifting from transactional networking to care-based net-weaving
    • micro moments of rest through slowing down and orienting
    • reconnecting with the elements by noticing sun, trees, and sky
    • what ancestors might want for us: outside time, joy, dance, play, and whimsy

    please follow along, subscribe to our podcast wherever you're listening, and feel free to get in touch with us. Our contact info is in the show notes. + Check out our website! You can even sign up to be in the loop about any gatherings that we organize in the future.



    Thanks for listening,

    Tolu & Gitika

    You can reach us at kinnected.squarespace.com


    Tolu is the Founder of Re-member Counseling & Gitika is the Founder of Pranh Healing & Wellness

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    25 分
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