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You've said you're sorry. You've prayed. You've promised yourself you won't go back. And then you did. Again. If you keep relapsing even when you mean it when you say you're sorry, the problem isn't that you didn't try hard enough. The problem is that what you think repentance is might not actually be repentance at all. Michael and Nick walk through the difference between regret and remorse, rationalization and reliance—and what true repentance actually looks like for Christian men trying to quit porn. You'll learn why behavior change without relational repair is just another form of isolation, and why connection, not perfection, is the path forward.

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Most Christian men have been handed a definition of sin that sounds like this: sin is the bad things you do. A list. A rulebook. A scoreboard.

So the whole Christian life becomes a losing game of whack-a-mole — swinging at the behavior that popped up this week while something deeper keeps generating the next one.

In this episode, Michael and Nick unpack a definition of sin most men have never heard: sin is living in a state of reactive mistrust. Not a behavior problem. A trust problem. A soul quietly convinced that God isn't safe, isn't good, isn't enough.

Porn isn't the sin under the sin. Mistrust is. Porn is the fruit, not the root.

This is Part 1 of a two-part conversation. Part 2 unpacks what it looks like to walk forward in trust.

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