Part 2:

Once a person spent months - years learning how to please you… it becomes addicting. You may have the same friends, or be around each others family... you might need to not show up to certain events if they are there. You cant think about doing anyone else, cuddling up with anyone else or going out to eat with anyone else. A lot of times how you bypass the fact that yall broken up is selfishly thinking about how good this orgasim might feel....

Guess what? you are now soul tied to a person who is not healthy for you and who you want to become...

What did we realize?

The Inner Fight:

Do not mix up kindness, understanding and good intentions with they want me back !!!

1. Is it high effort?
2. Do they try to get physical with you in a more than friends way?
3. Do they contact you after hours on purpose, or demand your attention when they know you are working?
4. Did they tell you straight up, I want to be with you, im doing xyzzy, I love you and im going to put in the effort to show you?
5. Are they avoiding seeing other people and ask if you are dating or not?

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